Black stains
This usually means manganese, which often shows up next to iron in the same water.
Manganese stays dissolved underground and turns into a black oxide once it reaches air, so it marks the fixtures rather than the glass.
Look for gray-black smears in the toilet and dishwasher, black grit in the aerator screen, and darker laundry stains than iron leaves.
Do not buy a softener on the strength of the stain. Manganese needs a number and a pH to size anything, and the two often need different treatment than iron alone.
Related: orange or brown stains and slimy orange or oily rainbow.